On Learning Through Presence
Connecting the invisible dots
When you encounter someone's final work product, whether it is a blog post, a tweet, or code, the only legible thing is the polished result. The million inputs that go into the end result are invisible to the end user.
The illegibility prevents you from seeing the countless intermediary drafts, weird quirks, and rituals that enabled the final work product to come to fruition. The illegible inputs are an amalgamation of a rich contextual history that is only learned offline, in person.
Physical presence exposes the illegible because it gives you access to people, and people are the generators of culture, systems, truths, and opportunities. The real updates to your life don't come from reading words online, but rather from being exposed to stimuli in the real world.
Culture
When you show up in person, you feel like you don't belong. You quickly learn that others have a deep and rich shared cultural history that has spanned over the better part of a decade, while you are a newcomer. You try your best: you connect with people during late night conversations you would have never connected with otherwise, and maybe even plan to throw a joint party together in New York.
You learn via oral history that you are standing in a place that was going to be turned into a soulless Marriott for consultants, but somebody cared enough to prevent that from happening. You learn that even the most rational people operate under the same universal constraints as you.
People
You learn about the entire production function of others and what makes them tick: from the conversation topics that pique their interest even well past midnight to how they take their coffee. You notice that one person always sits at the same outdoor table facing north, how impervious some are to the cold, and how many Diet Cokes people are drinking well past 9 pm. You learn that one of the leading social psychologists has a sick Ness. You learn about the Cosmic Crisp industrial complex, the only good thing to ever come out of Washington State.
Systems
You learn that these same dynamics are present in blog posts, which turn into movements, companies, and political change. You learn the shape of successful people: some of them are nicer and some are meaner than you could have imagined. Some completely strip away the Straussian veneer while others continue to talk in coded messages with multidimensional meanings.




















